What are the reasons behind Marriage Problems?

Param Pujya Dadashri has provided numerous reasons behind the problems in marriage. Some excerpts of actual spiritual discourses with Him have been added below as they are.

Pointing out mistakes

Communicate openly with your partner, as you would with your friend. We do not argue with our friends daily. Do we? Do we openly point out their mistakes to them? No! That is because we want to keep that friendship! Whereas with your partner you do not think! You can only show them the mistakes they are not aware of.

Hiding your weakenesses by blaming others

People try to hide their weakness by saying this is how the world revolves. It is because they hide their weakness, that their weakness remains. What does the weakness say? It says, “Until you acknowledge my presence, I will not leave.”

Making comparisons with others, causes suffering

Param Pujya Dadashri explains, “People have haphazardly labeled everything as suffering without thinking or analyzing it. For example, you have a set of old sofas and your friend who never had any just bought a new set. When your wife sees them, she comes home and tells you how nice your friend’s sofas look and complains that the ones you have at home have become old. Now the suffering has arrived in the home. There was no problem until she saw your friend’s sofa, but the moment she set eyes on them, she brought the suffering with her.

If your friend builds a bungalow and you do not have a bungalow, and your wife sees it, she will come home telling you how beautiful your friend’s new bungalow is and that you never build anything. That is suffering. These are all self-created sufferings.”

Difference of Opinion

These conflicts stem from differences of opinion, which arise within the mind when a married couple does not agree and see eye to eye. If the difference is not resolved then the next day, the distance between them starts to increase, which gradually develops into a dislike for each other. Thereafter enmity may arise between the two and as a result increase marriage problems.

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